That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
+1 on this post up some moref283000 said:Drum&Bass give us more! Your taste in women is exquisite good Sir!
+1 on this too. Not sure why another man's taste would bother you so much.f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
Definitely cute face and a decent rack. Her thighs are downright scrawny though, and I'm willing to bet that (like most asians) her butt matches. I mean sure you could probably play a nice game of checkers on it, but how anyone can smash a bony ass is completely beyond me. I find such posteriors to be disgusting and masculine, but if that's what does it for you, then keep plowing away (make sure to keep some ice handy for those bruises her ass bones give you).cordoncordon said:
An ironic deduction considering that it's low-class and trashy to post pics of your girlfriend just to prove a point on a forum. Just sayin'cordoncordon said:Typical trailer trash that middle American thinks is hot nowadays. Nothing remotely attractive about her. No class either.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Julius_Seizeher said:These women are great...if you're into women who take huge dumps and clog the toilet. Maybe you could get into a LTR with her and give her cutesie names like "Cloggasaurus" lol.
Get real, you'd have to have a **** like a baseball bat to get some of these whales off. There is nothing feminine about a big lazy fat ass, if I want to see a heifer I walk out to my barn. Get some standards for the love of God
Amen.Cr1msonKing said:The title is called "Post your favorite thick curvy girls."
Not "What type of girl is the most attractive"
Or "Everyone hate on what some of these dudes preferences are"
You make it sound as if we like fatties! We just like our women to have curves on them. We like our women to be easily distinguishable from a man by having a nice big feminine butt. We like our women to have some boobs.Cr1msonKing said:These are their standards, if they like their women a little bigger than what society says, then let them be.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.San Jose California said:All I'm doing is pointing out that these girls aren't hot to the average society's standards, and something must have triggered you guys to be seriously into these girls. Someone's gotta say it.
As well you should and I applaud you for that.teacha said:Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.
fcuk 'social pre-conditioning' by the mass-media, friends etc about whats right or wrong for you and start learning to think for yourelf. don't be a zombie...
Ignore them brother and let's get back on track. We're all waiting for you to post more pics!Drum&Bass said:The idiots who are causing bad vibes in this thread care more about my opinions of women than I do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.Drum&Bass said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.