Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
+1 on this post up some moref283000 said:Drum&Bass give us more! Your taste in women is exquisite good Sir!
+1 on this too. Not sure why another man's taste would bother you so much.f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
Definitely cute face and a decent rack. Her thighs are downright scrawny though, and I'm willing to bet that (like most asians) her butt matches. I mean sure you could probably play a nice game of checkers on it, but how anyone can smash a bony ass is completely beyond me. I find such posteriors to be disgusting and masculine, but if that's what does it for you, then keep plowing away (make sure to keep some ice handy for those bruises her ass bones give you).cordoncordon said:
An ironic deduction considering that it's low-class and trashy to post pics of your girlfriend just to prove a point on a forum. Just sayin'cordoncordon said:Typical trailer trash that middle American thinks is hot nowadays. Nothing remotely attractive about her. No class either.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Julius_Seizeher said:These women are great...if you're into women who take huge dumps and clog the toilet. Maybe you could get into a LTR with her and give her cutesie names like "Cloggasaurus" lol.
Get real, you'd have to have a **** like a baseball bat to get some of these whales off. There is nothing feminine about a big lazy fat ass, if I want to see a heifer I walk out to my barn. Get some standards for the love of God
Amen.Cr1msonKing said:The title is called "Post your favorite thick curvy girls."
Not "What type of girl is the most attractive"
Or "Everyone hate on what some of these dudes preferences are"
You make it sound as if we like fatties! We just like our women to have curves on them. We like our women to be easily distinguishable from a man by having a nice big feminine butt. We like our women to have some boobs.Cr1msonKing said:These are their standards, if they like their women a little bigger than what society says, then let them be.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.San Jose California said:All I'm doing is pointing out that these girls aren't hot to the average society's standards, and something must have triggered you guys to be seriously into these girls. Someone's gotta say it.
As well you should and I applaud you for that.teacha said:Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.
fcuk 'social pre-conditioning' by the mass-media, friends etc about whats right or wrong for you and start learning to think for yourelf. don't be a zombie...
Ignore them brother and let's get back on track. We're all waiting for you to post more pics!Drum&Bass said:The idiots who are causing bad vibes in this thread care more about my opinions of women than I do.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.Drum&Bass said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.