You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
+1 on this post up some moref283000 said:Drum&Bass give us more! Your taste in women is exquisite good Sir!
+1 on this too. Not sure why another man's taste would bother you so much.f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
f283000 said:cordon, you've done enough damage already. Leave us alone! Why don't you make your own thread for skinny pencil leg/flat ass women and leave us alone?
Definitely cute face and a decent rack. Her thighs are downright scrawny though, and I'm willing to bet that (like most asians) her butt matches. I mean sure you could probably play a nice game of checkers on it, but how anyone can smash a bony ass is completely beyond me. I find such posteriors to be disgusting and masculine, but if that's what does it for you, then keep plowing away (make sure to keep some ice handy for those bruises her ass bones give you).cordoncordon said:
An ironic deduction considering that it's low-class and trashy to post pics of your girlfriend just to prove a point on a forum. Just sayin'cordoncordon said:Typical trailer trash that middle American thinks is hot nowadays. Nothing remotely attractive about her. No class either.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Julius_Seizeher said:These women are great...if you're into women who take huge dumps and clog the toilet. Maybe you could get into a LTR with her and give her cutesie names like "Cloggasaurus" lol.
Get real, you'd have to have a **** like a baseball bat to get some of these whales off. There is nothing feminine about a big lazy fat ass, if I want to see a heifer I walk out to my barn. Get some standards for the love of God
Amen.Cr1msonKing said:The title is called "Post your favorite thick curvy girls."
Not "What type of girl is the most attractive"
Or "Everyone hate on what some of these dudes preferences are"
You make it sound as if we like fatties! We just like our women to have curves on them. We like our women to be easily distinguishable from a man by having a nice big feminine butt. We like our women to have some boobs.Cr1msonKing said:These are their standards, if they like their women a little bigger than what society says, then let them be.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.San Jose California said:All I'm doing is pointing out that these girls aren't hot to the average society's standards, and something must have triggered you guys to be seriously into these girls. Someone's gotta say it.
As well you should and I applaud you for that.teacha said:Screw the society, I live by MY OWN STANDARDS NOT SOMEBODY ELSE'S.
fcuk 'social pre-conditioning' by the mass-media, friends etc about whats right or wrong for you and start learning to think for yourelf. don't be a zombie...
Ignore them brother and let's get back on track. We're all waiting for you to post more pics!Drum&Bass said:The idiots who are causing bad vibes in this thread care more about my opinions of women than I do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This chick, to me, is just absolutely PERFECT. Im in my late 30`s & know EXACTLY what I like & what gets my juices flowing & I could whole-heartedly say, If I had this woman, Id be satisfied for the remainder of my days.Drum&Bass said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.