"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gal Gadot, a nice looking actress
 

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Blondie holding the coffee 8.5/10


Brunette at the end 9/10
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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playing the wrong national anthem was a combination of stupid and disrespectful.

 

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LOL regarding the Amish. Interestingly, though, I was in Amish country a couple years ago and I noticed there were some extraordinarily attractive young fillies out there.

To each his own. I have really grown to hate large amounts of makeup. There are two ways to use makeup... One is as a slight and tasteful seasoning to enhance the "dish", and the other is a cosmetic face dump that hides what's really there. For me, these women are literally creating an illusion which triggers men to react.

I do like a little subtle makeup. I just don't like the full paint job. I find it fake and manipulative. I'm fortunate to have a girl who has that natural beauty I love. She doesn't need makeup at all, even at her age. She definitely won the genetic lottery, to my benefit. For me, there's nothing like a fresh, smiling female face that is natural and without pretense. It's easy for me to overlook minor flaws because I value naturalness over cover-up. That's just my preference. When I see an artificially manufactured woman, I see massive problems behind the facade. That speaks louder to me than the exterior paint job.
I concur whole heartedly....

I've really come to find the most attractive aspect of a woman is the adoration in her eyes as she looks at me. In fact her Demeanor and Expression can elevate her appearance a great deal....
 

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Some posters here are right though, to each his own.
Interesting story, I got made fun of for weeks at school because I didn't know what spunk was. My 'friend' made me a 'wank schedule' from a blank school timetable. Years later, he got shat on on FB though over thoughtless comments he made about clappers during Covid, so hah hah cvnt.
 

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I'd say at least 4/5 of the gals here are 10/10: :cool:

 

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I skimmed this thread and I haven't seen any 10s yet. Lots of 7s, 8s, and some 9s.

I could try to find one myself but it would take hours. I don't save them on my computer like a simp.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I skimmed this thread and I haven't seen any 10s yet. Lots of 7s, 8s, and some 9s.

I could try to find one myself but it would take hours. I don't save them on my computer like a simp.
I've been posting them as I've come across them
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brunette 9/10

She’s more like a 6/7. Above average. “Cute.”
Bro I have the best taste in women)
 

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I see hotter women than her walking on the street every day in NYC. And the talent here is worse than what is in LA & Miami. This blonde girl is above average but not a HB8+. She doesn’t have the facial structure and she has that nose.


There really aren't any 10s, because a large part depends on her personality and most super hot women fail badly in that department.
No, beauty really does have objectivity. She can be a 10 and a bvtch. Most of them are.
 

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I see hotter women than her walking on the street every day in NYC. And the talent here is worse than what is in LA & Miami. This blonde girl is above average but not a HB8+. She doesn’t have the facial structure and she has that nose.




No, beauty really does have objectivity. She can be a 10 and a bvtch. Most of them are.
Maybe in the looks department, but that isn't enough for me. For me if she has a crappy personality it's like NFL teams that red flag draft prospects for failing physicals and take them off the board and they become undraftable to that team. She becomes undatable and I don't care how hot she is, I will despise having to be in the same room with her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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