"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gal Gadot, a nice looking actress
 

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Blondie holding the coffee 8.5/10


Brunette at the end 9/10
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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playing the wrong national anthem was a combination of stupid and disrespectful.

 

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LOL regarding the Amish. Interestingly, though, I was in Amish country a couple years ago and I noticed there were some extraordinarily attractive young fillies out there.

To each his own. I have really grown to hate large amounts of makeup. There are two ways to use makeup... One is as a slight and tasteful seasoning to enhance the "dish", and the other is a cosmetic face dump that hides what's really there. For me, these women are literally creating an illusion which triggers men to react.

I do like a little subtle makeup. I just don't like the full paint job. I find it fake and manipulative. I'm fortunate to have a girl who has that natural beauty I love. She doesn't need makeup at all, even at her age. She definitely won the genetic lottery, to my benefit. For me, there's nothing like a fresh, smiling female face that is natural and without pretense. It's easy for me to overlook minor flaws because I value naturalness over cover-up. That's just my preference. When I see an artificially manufactured woman, I see massive problems behind the facade. That speaks louder to me than the exterior paint job.
I concur whole heartedly....

I've really come to find the most attractive aspect of a woman is the adoration in her eyes as she looks at me. In fact her Demeanor and Expression can elevate her appearance a great deal....
 

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Some posters here are right though, to each his own.
Interesting story, I got made fun of for weeks at school because I didn't know what spunk was. My 'friend' made me a 'wank schedule' from a blank school timetable. Years later, he got shat on on FB though over thoughtless comments he made about clappers during Covid, so hah hah cvnt.
 

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I'd say at least 4/5 of the gals here are 10/10: :cool:

 

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I skimmed this thread and I haven't seen any 10s yet. Lots of 7s, 8s, and some 9s.

I could try to find one myself but it would take hours. I don't save them on my computer like a simp.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I skimmed this thread and I haven't seen any 10s yet. Lots of 7s, 8s, and some 9s.

I could try to find one myself but it would take hours. I don't save them on my computer like a simp.
I've been posting them as I've come across them
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brunette 9/10

She’s more like a 6/7. Above average. “Cute.”
Bro I have the best taste in women)
 

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I see hotter women than her walking on the street every day in NYC. And the talent here is worse than what is in LA & Miami. This blonde girl is above average but not a HB8+. She doesn’t have the facial structure and she has that nose.


There really aren't any 10s, because a large part depends on her personality and most super hot women fail badly in that department.
No, beauty really does have objectivity. She can be a 10 and a bvtch. Most of them are.
 

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I see hotter women than her walking on the street every day in NYC. And the talent here is worse than what is in LA & Miami. This blonde girl is above average but not a HB8+. She doesn’t have the facial structure and she has that nose.




No, beauty really does have objectivity. She can be a 10 and a bvtch. Most of them are.
Maybe in the looks department, but that isn't enough for me. For me if she has a crappy personality it's like NFL teams that red flag draft prospects for failing physicals and take them off the board and they become undraftable to that team. She becomes undatable and I don't care how hot she is, I will despise having to be in the same room with her.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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