"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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6.8 looks

edit: an 8 face with a 7 rack and a 6 figure (from what I can see). so that raises her to a 7. My first judgement was based on gut reaction and wasn't too bad :)

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Your girlfriend is a bit chubby.
If she were skinny, I'd do her.
Maybe twice.
If she were skinny that is.

As for you.
Your a good looking guy.
Why are you here, again?
You have looks going for you. You shouldn't need us. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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true black stereotype #24355: i like em a lil bit thicker than thin so shes good with me.

but for both cosmetic and health reasons, take her ass to the gym with u to prevent her from goin downhill in the future
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
........... :nono:

Someone's going to be ass broke come Christmas time.... :yes:

AS
 

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I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Yeah its so hard to beleive..

I find it hard to beleive that girls want guys that are clean shaven.

Guys without beards look like children.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
like I said all along, she isn't ugly at all, jus tisn't my cup of tea.

Little Boys?

This is my Ex.. She is all of 102 pounds, 5'5

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=5c1b&.dnm=98c3.jpg&.src=ph

What about that looks like a little boy?

Men, and women sometimes think you have to be "thick" to have a body, which is a sad state of american fitness.

I don't like girls with big asses, so I tend to steer clear of women with waists thicker than me (size 32)

It's all on body types and what you like. I am attracted to women that have long, sexy legs.. I'm not much of a breast or ass guy, more of the face and legs. I can see why an ass and tit guy would go for a thicker woman.
 
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