Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Create Reality

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6.8 looks

edit: an 8 face with a 7 rack and a 6 figure (from what I can see). so that raises her to a 7. My first judgement was based on gut reaction and wasn't too bad :)

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Your girlfriend is a bit chubby.
If she were skinny, I'd do her.
Maybe twice.
If she were skinny that is.

As for you.
Your a good looking guy.
Why are you here, again?
You have looks going for you. You shouldn't need us. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Soprano

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true black stereotype #24355: i like em a lil bit thicker than thin so shes good with me.

but for both cosmetic and health reasons, take her ass to the gym with u to prevent her from goin downhill in the future
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
........... :nono:

Someone's going to be ass broke come Christmas time.... :yes:

AS
 

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I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Yeah its so hard to beleive..

I find it hard to beleive that girls want guys that are clean shaven.

Guys without beards look like children.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
like I said all along, she isn't ugly at all, jus tisn't my cup of tea.

Little Boys?

This is my Ex.. She is all of 102 pounds, 5'5

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=5c1b&.dnm=98c3.jpg&.src=ph

What about that looks like a little boy?

Men, and women sometimes think you have to be "thick" to have a body, which is a sad state of american fitness.

I don't like girls with big asses, so I tend to steer clear of women with waists thicker than me (size 32)

It's all on body types and what you like. I am attracted to women that have long, sexy legs.. I'm not much of a breast or ass guy, more of the face and legs. I can see why an ass and tit guy would go for a thicker woman.
 
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