"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Create Reality

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6.8 looks

edit: an 8 face with a 7 rack and a 6 figure (from what I can see). so that raises her to a 7. My first judgement was based on gut reaction and wasn't too bad :)

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thederekeffect1

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Your girlfriend is a bit chubby.
If she were skinny, I'd do her.
Maybe twice.
If she were skinny that is.

As for you.
Your a good looking guy.
Why are you here, again?
You have looks going for you. You shouldn't need us. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Soprano

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true black stereotype #24355: i like em a lil bit thicker than thin so shes good with me.

but for both cosmetic and health reasons, take her ass to the gym with u to prevent her from goin downhill in the future
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by jlr12584
i already showed her... that was the biggest mistake of my life.
........... :nono:

Someone's going to be ass broke come Christmas time.... :yes:

AS
 

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I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Yeah its so hard to beleive..

I find it hard to beleive that girls want guys that are clean shaven.

Guys without beards look like children.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
I can't believe how many guys want women to look like 12 year old boys.

Rail thin girls don't look like women...they look like little boys.

Your girlfriend is not fat. She's thick. The top she's wearing isn't flattering for her shape, though.

You shouldn't have shown her the thread, though. She had to have been very hurt by some of the idiotic comments made by a bunch of guys who most likely spend more time with their hand than a pretty girl. She's very pretty. She should get rid of that top, though.
like I said all along, she isn't ugly at all, jus tisn't my cup of tea.

Little Boys?

This is my Ex.. She is all of 102 pounds, 5'5

http://pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/ur_hacked03/detail?.dir=5c1b&.dnm=98c3.jpg&.src=ph

What about that looks like a little boy?

Men, and women sometimes think you have to be "thick" to have a body, which is a sad state of american fitness.

I don't like girls with big asses, so I tend to steer clear of women with waists thicker than me (size 32)

It's all on body types and what you like. I am attracted to women that have long, sexy legs.. I'm not much of a breast or ass guy, more of the face and legs. I can see why an ass and tit guy would go for a thicker woman.
 
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