Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
That's just too cute for words
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
awwww, wheres my beer?Originally posted by crowes22
Cmon man let me give you congrats.
http://smiley.onegreatguy.net/beer.gifOriginally posted by penkitten
awwww, wheres my beer?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
uh i already have 4, isnt that my quota?Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
So how many kids you 2 plan on having?![]()
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So i take it you 2 arent gonna be wanting any MORE kids? ... okOriginally posted by penkitten
uh i already have 4, isnt that my quota?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
aint he just the bestest?Originally posted by Serg897
Ive been on these forums for years, and even though I havent really posted much lately, I've always had much respect towards Gio Casanova...( a couple of times I asked you for advice last year over AIM ).
Congratulations!![]()
He's just the sweetest thing ever invented...:crackup:Originally posted by penkitten
aint he just the bestest?
They met on this forum. :woo:Originally posted by Void
I wish you guys the best. Just wondering did you guys meet on sosuave, or did Gio show it to you at one point in the relationship?
And if so, how'd that work?
you guys are so cute in your picutres!!![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
being married is great , however the bun factory was shut done a few years ago haha. we got puppies instead.iqqi said:^^^^ This thread is two years old, lol.
So, Pennie how is married life with Gio? A fifth bun in the oven yet? You know you had everyone hopeful for a DJ superhero baby!![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.