Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
That's just too cute for words
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
awwww, wheres my beer?Originally posted by crowes22
Cmon man let me give you congrats.
http://smiley.onegreatguy.net/beer.gifOriginally posted by penkitten
awwww, wheres my beer?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
uh i already have 4, isnt that my quota?Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
So how many kids you 2 plan on having?![]()
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So i take it you 2 arent gonna be wanting any MORE kids? ... okOriginally posted by penkitten
uh i already have 4, isnt that my quota?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
aint he just the bestest?Originally posted by Serg897
Ive been on these forums for years, and even though I havent really posted much lately, I've always had much respect towards Gio Casanova...( a couple of times I asked you for advice last year over AIM ).
Congratulations!![]()
He's just the sweetest thing ever invented...:crackup:Originally posted by penkitten
aint he just the bestest?
They met on this forum. :woo:Originally posted by Void
I wish you guys the best. Just wondering did you guys meet on sosuave, or did Gio show it to you at one point in the relationship?
And if so, how'd that work?
you guys are so cute in your picutres!!![]()
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
being married is great , however the bun factory was shut done a few years ago haha. we got puppies instead.iqqi said:^^^^ This thread is two years old, lol.
So, Pennie how is married life with Gio? A fifth bun in the oven yet? You know you had everyone hopeful for a DJ superhero baby!![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.