Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
That's just too cute for words
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Penkitten and I Are Getting Married
- Thread starter Giovanni Casanova
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
awwww, wheres my beer?
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
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- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
penkitten
Master Don Juan
aww olive you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Re: kids...........
uh i already have 4, isnt that my quota?Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
So how many kids you 2 plan on having?
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
for the bacholer party I'll get Player_Supreme and his girls over there. You guys will have a good old time
Serg897
Master Don Juan
Ive been on these forums for years, and even though I havent really posted much lately, I've always had much respect towards Gio Casanova...( a couple of times I asked you for advice last year over AIM ).
Congratulations!
Congratulations!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
aint he just the bestest?Originally posted by Serg897
Ive been on these forums for years, and even though I havent really posted much lately, I've always had much respect towards Gio Casanova...( a couple of times I asked you for advice last year over AIM ).
Congratulations!
They met on this forum. :woo:Originally posted by Void
I wish you guys the best. Just wondering did you guys meet on sosuave, or did Gio show it to you at one point in the relationship?
And if so, how'd that work?
you guys are so cute in your picutres!!
Laterz....
penkitten
Master Don Juan
not much longer
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
Hey man after all this work it pays off you found the right one. Good Luck and best wishes.
Kevin
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Keep coming on to help out the other guys and dont forget about us DJ's
Kevin
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Keep coming on to help out the other guys and dont forget about us DJ's
Way to go..
just don't do anything stupid OK! you guys should be as serious 50 years in the future as you are now!
tips for healthy relationship:
do eachother like bunny rabbits on steroids
eat lots of greens
drink plenty of water
dance in sunlight with plenty of lettuce in hand
whisper sweet nothings from both exists of the body
go to church!
just don't do anything stupid OK! you guys should be as serious 50 years in the future as you are now!
tips for healthy relationship:
do eachother like bunny rabbits on steroids
eat lots of greens
drink plenty of water
dance in sunlight with plenty of lettuce in hand
whisper sweet nothings from both exists of the body
go to church!
iqqi
Master Don Juan
^^^^ This thread is two years old, lol.
So, Pennie how is married life with Gio? A fifth bun in the oven yet? You know you had everyone hopeful for a DJ superhero baby!
So, Pennie how is married life with Gio? A fifth bun in the oven yet? You know you had everyone hopeful for a DJ superhero baby!
penkitten
Master Don Juan
being married is great , however the bun factory was shut done a few years ago haha. we got puppies instead.iqqi said:^^^^ This thread is two years old, lol.
So, Pennie how is married life with Gio? A fifth bun in the oven yet? You know you had everyone hopeful for a DJ superhero baby!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.