"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Penkitten and I Are Getting Married

Gio and Penkitten Are Getting Married!

  • Dude, that rocks.

    Votes: 31 36.9%
  • That's so effing awesome.

    Votes: 21 25.0%
  • Penkitten, you are one lucky chick.

    Votes: 26 31.0%
  • Gio, you are one lucky dude.

    Votes: 6 7.1%

  • Total voters
    84

penkitten

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comic_relief said:
tell you what Pen, you can have the sandwich maker, and I will take his pancake maker. :p

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but i bought the pancake maker ...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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penkitten said:
but i bought the pancake maker ...
alright, I'll take the sandwich maker and you can take back your pancake maker.

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comic_relief said:
alright, I'll take the sandwich maker and you can take back your pancake maker.

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wait, if i took it back, i would be an indian giver ...
 

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penkitten said:
wait, if i took it back, i would be an indian giver ...
I would be a thief and you an indian giver, we would go together quite well.

Plus we would have all of Gio's sh!t.

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comic_relief said:
I would be a thief and you an indian giver, we would go together quite well.

Plus we would have all of Gio's sh!t.

comic_relief
HALF, motherf*cker.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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goonie goo goo,

EDDIE I want half!














Pen, Depeche Mode are threatening to leave in about an hour...

...just letting you know.
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
HALF, motherf*cker.
not if I steal your half :p :cool:

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Interceptor said:
Pen, Depeche Mode are threatening to leave in about an hour...

...just letting you know.
wait, they still tour?
 
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