"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Penkitten and I Are Getting Married

Gio and Penkitten Are Getting Married!

  • Dude, that rocks.

    Votes: 31 36.9%
  • That's so effing awesome.

    Votes: 21 25.0%
  • Penkitten, you are one lucky chick.

    Votes: 26 31.0%
  • Gio, you are one lucky dude.

    Votes: 6 7.1%

  • Total voters
    84

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comic_relief said:
tell you what Pen, you can have the sandwich maker, and I will take his pancake maker. :p

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but i bought the pancake maker ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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penkitten said:
but i bought the pancake maker ...
alright, I'll take the sandwich maker and you can take back your pancake maker.

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comic_relief said:
alright, I'll take the sandwich maker and you can take back your pancake maker.

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wait, if i took it back, i would be an indian giver ...
 

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penkitten said:
wait, if i took it back, i would be an indian giver ...
I would be a thief and you an indian giver, we would go together quite well.

Plus we would have all of Gio's sh!t.

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comic_relief said:
I would be a thief and you an indian giver, we would go together quite well.

Plus we would have all of Gio's sh!t.

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HALF, motherf*cker.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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goonie goo goo,

EDDIE I want half!














Pen, Depeche Mode are threatening to leave in about an hour...

...just letting you know.
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
HALF, motherf*cker.
not if I steal your half :p :cool:

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Interceptor said:
Pen, Depeche Mode are threatening to leave in about an hour...

...just letting you know.
wait, they still tour?
 
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