Yeah, here's where the problem starts right away. And no, you're not in love, you're in lust and you seem like a guy with not so much experience with women.this current chick has made my brains melt, yeah you got it right im in love with this specific woman.
All to plan. About 6 months in, you destroyed every possible thought she had that you might be relationship material with your plans and games and tactics. Too robotic with the "she was doing almost 100% of the chase", I can tell you're still in the mechanical part of this whole thing, trying to follow rules and what not and that sends her a vibe of a man who is in the making and guess what, my man? Chicks don't like men in the making. They like them at first because they can't figure them out, but about 6 months is more than enough to discover the way a confused guy does things and once she figures you out...you're done. Like you are right now.she told me i don't feel the "Spark" then i realize i ****ed up.
Then the sex started to go away, and she didn't want to have sex with me.
Why would you do that? It is not a man's job to push for a relationship. If she sees you as high value enough, she will want to lock you down herself. Stop trynna be a woman. Be the man, maybe then she will be the woman.i realized that she turned the relationship into a platonic one, i told her that is unacceptable and that i dont want a woman to be buudys and to call me when she feels she is ready to be affectionate with me in the bed to give me a call and i left.
Lots of work for you to do.