When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lol to open with this . Ill try on friday lol . Im gonna get a slap but i dont carebmxcetera said:Wanna hang out with my wang out?
Daddy The Pimp said:Prom Photographer by Daddy The Pimp
Here at my country , at prom nights , there are a lot people (friends , relatives , boyfriends , girlfriends ) watching students that are going to prom night in front of the hotel/restaurant where the prom is being held .
So , great opportunity . I got my photo camera (professional Cannon) and went there .
Said to girls ,
Aww , you look good tonight . Smile
PHOTO
Getting them near me , to watch the photo if they like.
Ok honey , gimme your e-mail and ill e-mail your photos and we will get in touch sometimes.
There were some funny cases when girls gave me that weird look . I said , ohh , youre not photogenic . Try smiling , maybe you look better .
I think i was successful because i got a reputation of payed photograph too quick , i dont know why .
But , the bed news are that i was trying a new memory card printer and i burned memory card and printer too . I think im not gonna add them at all .
Anyway , it was a nice night .
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Im 18 .ARrocket said:Dude how old are you?? Wouldn't these girls be 16-18?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lol , nice one . Which is the first ?bmxcetera said:During daygame, I said to a lady "You wanna see the city's 2nd largest monument?" I didn't get slapped, it led me into a good conversation though and neghits.
Rofl .bmxcetera said:Washington Monument or...urs! LMAO.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yea , but i dont know if it works . Im talking about girls that doesnt give you approach invitations ( eye contact , smile ) .Evolution said:I usually just saw "Yo, wassup." or "What are u guys talking about?" or "I came by to say Hi." And sometimes I like to use a combination of "Yo, wassup. What are u guys talking about?"
Or if i really like to get snappy, I say "You, wassup, what r u guys talking about, I came by to say Hi."
"Yo wassup, my name is..."Daddy The Pimp said:Sh1t sh1t sh1t sh1t . I was out tonight and guess what ? I havent approach a single set . WTF , no openers on my brain , i just frooze up . I dont know WTF is happening .
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp said:Gonna use again my photo camera as a daygame pickup tool on Saturday .
Hey girls . Can you take a photo of me ? You know how to take it right ?
Look , the camera should be held like this [teasing , c+f ] (CREDIT : DONT REMEMBER , SOMEONE FROM SS )
IT STOPS TARGET .
Ok , while we are at photo's , quick question . My friends girlfriend found pic's of his EX under his bed . And she wants him to burn them . What do you think , is it reasonable ?
Bang , cant wait to shoot this one.
Well , i have the same opinion as you about opinion openers . I think its stupid asking strange people about your problems and your sh1t . But they DO work .Stud No1 said:I like the first part, but see the ex-girlfriend opener, i think its hilariously awful.
Who the hell goes around asking questions like that? Its sad and imo demonstrates lower value right away. Im sure it can work to get a conversation going but im also sure its not great. Why would u be asking, not only a random question, but one not directly involving yourself either? Stupid and sad.
You got some good openers, but why post some stuff right out of Mystery's book? Keep it original.Daddy The Pimp said:Always open a set with higher energy that they have . They want someone who's having fun , not someone bored that will bore them to tears .Confidence
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.