You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Lol to open with this . Ill try on friday lol . Im gonna get a slap but i dont carebmxcetera said:Wanna hang out with my wang out?
Daddy The Pimp said:Prom Photographer by Daddy The Pimp
Here at my country , at prom nights , there are a lot people (friends , relatives , boyfriends , girlfriends ) watching students that are going to prom night in front of the hotel/restaurant where the prom is being held .
So , great opportunity . I got my photo camera (professional Cannon) and went there .
Said to girls ,
Aww , you look good tonight . Smile
PHOTO
Getting them near me , to watch the photo if they like.
Ok honey , gimme your e-mail and ill e-mail your photos and we will get in touch sometimes.
There were some funny cases when girls gave me that weird look . I said , ohh , youre not photogenic . Try smiling , maybe you look better .
I think i was successful because i got a reputation of payed photograph too quick , i dont know why .
But , the bed news are that i was trying a new memory card printer and i burned memory card and printer too . I think im not gonna add them at all .
Anyway , it was a nice night .
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Im 18 .ARrocket said:Dude how old are you?? Wouldn't these girls be 16-18?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lol , nice one . Which is the first ?bmxcetera said:During daygame, I said to a lady "You wanna see the city's 2nd largest monument?" I didn't get slapped, it led me into a good conversation though and neghits.
Rofl .bmxcetera said:Washington Monument or...urs! LMAO.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea , but i dont know if it works . Im talking about girls that doesnt give you approach invitations ( eye contact , smile ) .Evolution said:I usually just saw "Yo, wassup." or "What are u guys talking about?" or "I came by to say Hi." And sometimes I like to use a combination of "Yo, wassup. What are u guys talking about?"
Or if i really like to get snappy, I say "You, wassup, what r u guys talking about, I came by to say Hi."
"Yo wassup, my name is..."Daddy The Pimp said:Sh1t sh1t sh1t sh1t . I was out tonight and guess what ? I havent approach a single set . WTF , no openers on my brain , i just frooze up . I dont know WTF is happening .
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Daddy The Pimp said:Gonna use again my photo camera as a daygame pickup tool on Saturday .
Hey girls . Can you take a photo of me ? You know how to take it right ?
Look , the camera should be held like this [teasing , c+f ] (CREDIT : DONT REMEMBER , SOMEONE FROM SS )
IT STOPS TARGET .
Ok , while we are at photo's , quick question . My friends girlfriend found pic's of his EX under his bed . And she wants him to burn them . What do you think , is it reasonable ?
Bang , cant wait to shoot this one.
Well , i have the same opinion as you about opinion openers . I think its stupid asking strange people about your problems and your sh1t . But they DO work .Stud No1 said:I like the first part, but see the ex-girlfriend opener, i think its hilariously awful.
Who the hell goes around asking questions like that? Its sad and imo demonstrates lower value right away. Im sure it can work to get a conversation going but im also sure its not great. Why would u be asking, not only a random question, but one not directly involving yourself either? Stupid and sad.
You got some good openers, but why post some stuff right out of Mystery's book? Keep it original.Daddy The Pimp said:Always open a set with higher energy that they have . They want someone who's having fun , not someone bored that will bore them to tears .Confidence
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.