You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol to open with this . Ill try on friday lol . Im gonna get a slap but i dont carebmxcetera said:Wanna hang out with my wang out?
Daddy The Pimp said:Prom Photographer by Daddy The Pimp
Here at my country , at prom nights , there are a lot people (friends , relatives , boyfriends , girlfriends ) watching students that are going to prom night in front of the hotel/restaurant where the prom is being held .
So , great opportunity . I got my photo camera (professional Cannon) and went there .
Said to girls ,
Aww , you look good tonight . Smile
PHOTO
Getting them near me , to watch the photo if they like.
Ok honey , gimme your e-mail and ill e-mail your photos and we will get in touch sometimes.
There were some funny cases when girls gave me that weird look . I said , ohh , youre not photogenic . Try smiling , maybe you look better .
I think i was successful because i got a reputation of payed photograph too quick , i dont know why .
But , the bed news are that i was trying a new memory card printer and i burned memory card and printer too . I think im not gonna add them at all .
Anyway , it was a nice night .
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Im 18 .ARrocket said:Dude how old are you?? Wouldn't these girls be 16-18?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lol , nice one . Which is the first ?bmxcetera said:During daygame, I said to a lady "You wanna see the city's 2nd largest monument?" I didn't get slapped, it led me into a good conversation though and neghits.
Rofl .bmxcetera said:Washington Monument or...urs! LMAO.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yea , but i dont know if it works . Im talking about girls that doesnt give you approach invitations ( eye contact , smile ) .Evolution said:I usually just saw "Yo, wassup." or "What are u guys talking about?" or "I came by to say Hi." And sometimes I like to use a combination of "Yo, wassup. What are u guys talking about?"
Or if i really like to get snappy, I say "You, wassup, what r u guys talking about, I came by to say Hi."
"Yo wassup, my name is..."Daddy The Pimp said:Sh1t sh1t sh1t sh1t . I was out tonight and guess what ? I havent approach a single set . WTF , no openers on my brain , i just frooze up . I dont know WTF is happening .
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Daddy The Pimp said:Gonna use again my photo camera as a daygame pickup tool on Saturday .
Hey girls . Can you take a photo of me ? You know how to take it right ?
Look , the camera should be held like this [teasing , c+f ] (CREDIT : DONT REMEMBER , SOMEONE FROM SS )
IT STOPS TARGET .
Ok , while we are at photo's , quick question . My friends girlfriend found pic's of his EX under his bed . And she wants him to burn them . What do you think , is it reasonable ?
Bang , cant wait to shoot this one.
Well , i have the same opinion as you about opinion openers . I think its stupid asking strange people about your problems and your sh1t . But they DO work .Stud No1 said:I like the first part, but see the ex-girlfriend opener, i think its hilariously awful.
Who the hell goes around asking questions like that? Its sad and imo demonstrates lower value right away. Im sure it can work to get a conversation going but im also sure its not great. Why would u be asking, not only a random question, but one not directly involving yourself either? Stupid and sad.
You got some good openers, but why post some stuff right out of Mystery's book? Keep it original.Daddy The Pimp said:Always open a set with higher energy that they have . They want someone who's having fun , not someone bored that will bore them to tears .Confidence
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.