"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
My Gf backed up into my 2005 mercedes fvckin sh*t
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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what is the big fuss about??? Have her agree to pay half, but in installments (she only makes 1000/ month) or just foot the bill, and help her drive.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
a brand new benz is not a big deal too you? you must drive a f**kin gold plated lamborgini thats wheels are made of dimonds!
ide be pissed if i got a 83 civic and it got a dent!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
This guy isn't even rich. Rich people know better than to waste money on liabilities. This guy is barely scraping by with his benz.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Why would anyone be jealous of some douche who's barely scraping by because he wasted his money on a brand new Benz to impress people?Originally posted by spider_007
don't worry about them ^^^ people tend to be jaleous if someone has a better car. I'm not, i have a better car then you (98 Neon
Anyway,
I'd tell the biach to put up the bill. If she had trouble paying it, then i'd help her with couple hundred (no more then that). AND YOU BETTER MAKE HER FEEL ALL GUILTY ABOUT IT!!!!!! i'll give you some slack if YOU do something wrong.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Shut up. He's not a better person because he has a brand new Benz, nor is he more important than anyone. And you're not paying much for the 83 Civic, so why ***** about dents in an 800 dollar car?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i know. i just get pissed if anything of mine is damaged or disrespected, its not bit**ing just not wanting ,my stuff damaged or disrespected
lol i dont even have a car
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
brucevangeorge
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Didnt stick around in the post or didnt stick around in the "situation"?
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Did you miss where he said "If you think I can flip the bill cause I drive a benz your wrong. I have had so much sh*t to pay for."? He's going broke paying for a brand new Benz he can't afford. If I were to get one, it would be no newer than 2000. None brand new until I have a net income of 50,000 or more.Originally posted by tristan22
Not everyone buys a Mercedes trying to emulate a millionaire. Some of you guys criticize and judge the fuk out of everyone!
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
When you buy one, make sure it's starmark certified or under warranty, because the newer model mercedes are not as reliable as the older "inline six" Mercedes. Trust me, the extra money you pay for the starmark is well worth it (free rental car, oil changes, etc.).
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.