"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
My Gf backed up into my 2005 mercedes fvckin sh*t
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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what is the big fuss about??? Have her agree to pay half, but in installments (she only makes 1000/ month) or just foot the bill, and help her drive.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
a brand new benz is not a big deal too you? you must drive a f**kin gold plated lamborgini thats wheels are made of dimonds!
ide be pissed if i got a 83 civic and it got a dent!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TesuqueRed
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MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
This guy isn't even rich. Rich people know better than to waste money on liabilities. This guy is barely scraping by with his benz.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Why would anyone be jealous of some douche who's barely scraping by because he wasted his money on a brand new Benz to impress people?Originally posted by spider_007
don't worry about them ^^^ people tend to be jaleous if someone has a better car. I'm not, i have a better car then you (98 Neon
Anyway,
I'd tell the biach to put up the bill. If she had trouble paying it, then i'd help her with couple hundred (no more then that). AND YOU BETTER MAKE HER FEEL ALL GUILTY ABOUT IT!!!!!! i'll give you some slack if YOU do something wrong.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Shut up. He's not a better person because he has a brand new Benz, nor is he more important than anyone. And you're not paying much for the 83 Civic, so why ***** about dents in an 800 dollar car?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i know. i just get pissed if anything of mine is damaged or disrespected, its not bit**ing just not wanting ,my stuff damaged or disrespected
lol i dont even have a car
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
brucevangeorge
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Didnt stick around in the post or didnt stick around in the "situation"?
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
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Senior Don Juan
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Did you miss where he said "If you think I can flip the bill cause I drive a benz your wrong. I have had so much sh*t to pay for."? He's going broke paying for a brand new Benz he can't afford. If I were to get one, it would be no newer than 2000. None brand new until I have a net income of 50,000 or more.Originally posted by tristan22
Not everyone buys a Mercedes trying to emulate a millionaire. Some of you guys criticize and judge the fuk out of everyone!
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
When you buy one, make sure it's starmark certified or under warranty, because the newer model mercedes are not as reliable as the older "inline six" Mercedes. Trust me, the extra money you pay for the starmark is well worth it (free rental car, oil changes, etc.).
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.