That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
a brand new benz is not a big deal too you? you must drive a f**kin gold plated lamborgini thats wheels are made of dimonds!Originally posted by brucevangeorge
after all its a BENZ!!! HOLY ****!
Why should they?Originally posted by PeoplesChamp
Rich People: Always thinking of others.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Originally posted by aix237
My stupid gf just backed into my new 2005 mercedes...She hit my other car too a long time ago...
What is she doing driving? Some people shouldn't be let behind motorized vehicles. A car is one thing. Wait till she starts hitting people.
...If you think I can flip the bill cause I drive a benz your wrong. I have had so much sh*t to pay for... Just wondering then why you bought a benz? It sounds like you can't afford it, or just barely. A car is a money-hole, why get more than you can afford?
This guy isn't even rich. Rich people know better than to waste money on liabilities. This guy is barely scraping by with his benz.Originally posted by PeoplesChamp
Rich People: Always thinking of others.
Why would anyone be jealous of some douche who's barely scraping by because he wasted his money on a brand new Benz to impress people?Originally posted by spider_007
don't worry about them ^^^ people tend to be jaleous if someone has a better car. I'm not, i have a better car then you (98 Neonthe doors open and everything).
Anyway,
I'd tell the biach to put up the bill. If she had trouble paying it, then i'd help her with couple hundred (no more then that). AND YOU BETTER MAKE HER FEEL ALL GUILTY ABOUT IT!!!!!! i'll give you some slack if YOU do something wrong.
Shut up. He's not a better person because he has a brand new Benz, nor is he more important than anyone. And you're not paying much for the 83 Civic, so why ***** about dents in an 800 dollar car?Originally posted by Brian20o2
a brand new benz is not a big deal too you? you must drive a f**kin gold plated lamborgini thats wheels are made of dimonds!
ide be pissed if i got a 83 civic and it got a dent!
i know. i just get pissed if anything of mine is damaged or disrespected, its not bit**ing just not wanting ,my stuff damaged or disrespectedOriginally posted by MetalFortress
Shut up. He's not a better person because he has a brand new Benz, nor is he more important than anyone. And you're not paying much for the 83 Civic, so why ***** about dents in an 800 dollar car?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Didnt stick around in the post or didnt stick around in the "situation"?Originally posted by Wyldfire
This guy didn't stick around. Hit and run posts indicate a troll...
Just an observation.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Did you miss where he said "If you think I can flip the bill cause I drive a benz your wrong. I have had so much sh*t to pay for."? He's going broke paying for a brand new Benz he can't afford. If I were to get one, it would be no newer than 2000. None brand new until I have a net income of 50,000 or more.Originally posted by tristan22
Not everyone buys a Mercedes trying to emulate a millionaire. Some of you guys criticize and judge the fuk out of everyone!
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.