"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My Gf backed up into my 2005 mercedes fvckin sh*t
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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what is the big fuss about??? Have her agree to pay half, but in installments (she only makes 1000/ month) or just foot the bill, and help her drive.Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
a brand new benz is not a big deal too you? you must drive a f**kin gold plated lamborgini thats wheels are made of dimonds!
ide be pissed if i got a 83 civic and it got a dent!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TesuqueRed
Master Don Juan
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
This guy isn't even rich. Rich people know better than to waste money on liabilities. This guy is barely scraping by with his benz.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Why would anyone be jealous of some douche who's barely scraping by because he wasted his money on a brand new Benz to impress people?Originally posted by spider_007
don't worry about them ^^^ people tend to be jaleous if someone has a better car. I'm not, i have a better car then you (98 Neon
Anyway,
I'd tell the biach to put up the bill. If she had trouble paying it, then i'd help her with couple hundred (no more then that). AND YOU BETTER MAKE HER FEEL ALL GUILTY ABOUT IT!!!!!! i'll give you some slack if YOU do something wrong.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Shut up. He's not a better person because he has a brand new Benz, nor is he more important than anyone. And you're not paying much for the 83 Civic, so why ***** about dents in an 800 dollar car?
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
i know. i just get pissed if anything of mine is damaged or disrespected, its not bit**ing just not wanting ,my stuff damaged or disrespected
lol i dont even have a car
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
brucevangeorge
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Didnt stick around in the post or didnt stick around in the "situation"?
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Did you miss where he said "If you think I can flip the bill cause I drive a benz your wrong. I have had so much sh*t to pay for."? He's going broke paying for a brand new Benz he can't afford. If I were to get one, it would be no newer than 2000. None brand new until I have a net income of 50,000 or more.Originally posted by tristan22
Not everyone buys a Mercedes trying to emulate a millionaire. Some of you guys criticize and judge the fuk out of everyone!
I bought a mercedes b/c:
A. They hold their value. GREAT RESALE!
B. The engineering is awesome!
C. THe Safety is top notch.
D. I have a 100,000 mile warranty. They will pick me up anywhere if i have car trouble. I will get another mercedes as a rental if something goes wrong. I will never have to change a flat tire........etc, etc, etc!!!!
I'm not rich, i am a law student, and i drive a mercedes. I guess i must be a stupid idiot. I purchased a liability
When you buy one, make sure it's starmark certified or under warranty, because the newer model mercedes are not as reliable as the older "inline six" Mercedes. Trust me, the extra money you pay for the starmark is well worth it (free rental car, oil changes, etc.).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.