devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
You are going to cvm before she finishes dinner at this rate lmao, slow down
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
My cousin has a gorgeous Armenian friend in Toronto
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- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Big deal. I know fine women, they are just women. How does she treat you? Are you fvcking her? Carry on.
her legs and ass are a little on skinny side. I need to get her to gain about 20 lbs so she can look like this
although her face is much prettier than that model ^
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
zekko
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Yeah, tell her that
haahhahahahYeah, tell her that
I'm probably better off seeking someone like that who is naturally thin. Thick girls look like whales down the line
zekko
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That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.
this one is better. A little bit younger, less stuff going on in her life
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Yeah right now bigdave is a player, he's got 2 girls. Lets make it 3 c'mon my man
I don't have any girls dude. I need to start seeing one of them IRL
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Well, at least you've actually spoken to at least one of them, and you're communicating with the other (text).
It's a step in the right direction. Just don't lose the momentum.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
With new gal get a skype or FaceTime to verify attraction. Then he can send for.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Bigdave17. Its important that the female wants to go along with your program. That she submits to you. If she doesnt she needs to not exist to you.
If we add a female she needs to feed our masculinity and add to it. If she detracted from it we have to release. Women should like us enough that they want to help us.
If we add a female she needs to feed our masculinity and add to it. If she detracted from it we have to release. Women should like us enough that they want to help us.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.