"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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she's a 9-10/10 IMO

her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
You are going to cvm before she finishes dinner at this rate lmao, slow down
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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she's a 9-10/10 IMO

her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
Big deal. I know fine women, they are just women. How does she treat you? Are you fvcking her? Carry on.
 

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She's an attractive gal. Dave likes her, that's all that matters.
And she has that big butt that he likes.
 

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She's an attractive gal. Dave likes her, that's all that matters.
And she has that big butt that he likes.

her legs and ass are a little on skinny side. I need to get her to gain about 20 lbs so she can look like this







although her face is much prettier than that model ^
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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her legs and ass are a little on skinny side. I need to get her to gain about 20 lbs so she can look like this
Yeah, tell her that :rolleyes:
 

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If I were you, I would take what I could get and say thank you!
 

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And i thought he already met her in person in NYC?
That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.
 

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That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.

this one is better. A little bit younger, less stuff going on in her life
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah right now bigdave is a player, he's got 2 girls. Lets make it 3 c'mon my man
 

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I don't have any girls dude. I need to start seeing one of them IRL
Well, at least you've actually spoken to at least one of them, and you're communicating with the other (text).
It's a step in the right direction. Just don't lose the momentum.
 

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That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.
With new gal get a skype or FaceTime to verify attraction. Then he can send for.
 

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Bigdave17. Its important that the female wants to go along with your program. That she submits to you. If she doesnt she needs to not exist to you.

If we add a female she needs to feed our masculinity and add to it. If she detracted from it we have to release. Women should like us enough that they want to help us.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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