"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she's a 9-10/10 IMO

her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
You are going to cvm before she finishes dinner at this rate lmao, slow down
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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she's a 9-10/10 IMO

her facebook has like 42 friends. A beautiful gorgeous woman who is not an attention ***** at all, how awesome is that?
Big deal. I know fine women, they are just women. How does she treat you? Are you fvcking her? Carry on.
 

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She's an attractive gal. Dave likes her, that's all that matters.
And she has that big butt that he likes.
 

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She's an attractive gal. Dave likes her, that's all that matters.
And she has that big butt that he likes.

her legs and ass are a little on skinny side. I need to get her to gain about 20 lbs so she can look like this







although her face is much prettier than that model ^
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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her legs and ass are a little on skinny side. I need to get her to gain about 20 lbs so she can look like this
Yeah, tell her that :rolleyes:
 

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If I were you, I would take what I could get and say thank you!
 

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And i thought he already met her in person in NYC?
That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.
 

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That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.

this one is better. A little bit younger, less stuff going on in her life
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah right now bigdave is a player, he's got 2 girls. Lets make it 3 c'mon my man
 

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I don't have any girls dude. I need to start seeing one of them IRL
Well, at least you've actually spoken to at least one of them, and you're communicating with the other (text).
It's a step in the right direction. Just don't lose the momentum.
 

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That's a different gal, a friend of his sister's IIRC.
See? Dave's working on getting some plates in the air.
With new gal get a skype or FaceTime to verify attraction. Then he can send for.
 

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Bigdave17. Its important that the female wants to go along with your program. That she submits to you. If she doesnt she needs to not exist to you.

If we add a female she needs to feed our masculinity and add to it. If she detracted from it we have to release. Women should like us enough that they want to help us.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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