Thorninmyside
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Friendzone would imply that she had any feelings towards you at all. Everything she's done, she's done for her. You're her b*tch and I hope you can see that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MY BPD EXPERIENCE/DILEMMA (LONG READ)
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dingo
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Dingo
Master Don Juan
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Most all us here have gone through similar experiences... The Red Pill is hard to swallow... it's gonna hurt but you will survive.... Trust me.
Today's update: I just took her to work, she has a very short day today roughly 3 hours and as we got closer I said anyway, so shall I pick you up 7ish for dinner? Her response "errrm idk if im feeling it tonight, shall we do something tomorrow like go to the gym and spend the day together then have dinner?"
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Given her previous behavior and telling you On the way to work, Yes.
It's safe to assume she already has other plans for tonight.
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