Thorninmyside
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 18, 2014
- Messages
- 622
- Reaction score
- 356
Friendzone would imply that she had any feelings towards you at all. Everything she's done, she's done for her. You're her b*tch and I hope you can see that.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MY BPD EXPERIENCE/DILEMMA (LONG READ)
- Thread starter PokerL
- Start date
- Status
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dingo
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 17, 2014
- Messages
- 1,155
- Reaction score
- 960
Gold...
Dingo
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 17, 2014
- Messages
- 1,155
- Reaction score
- 960
Most all us here have gone through similar experiences... The Red Pill is hard to swallow... it's gonna hurt but you will survive.... Trust me.
Today's update: I just took her to work, she has a very short day today roughly 3 hours and as we got closer I said anyway, so shall I pick you up 7ish for dinner? Her response "errrm idk if im feeling it tonight, shall we do something tomorrow like go to the gym and spend the day together then have dinner?"
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Given her previous behavior and telling you On the way to work, Yes.
It's safe to assume she already has other plans for tonight.
Last edited:
- Status