Thorninmyside
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Friendzone would imply that she had any feelings towards you at all. Everything she's done, she's done for her. You're her b*tch and I hope you can see that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MY BPD EXPERIENCE/DILEMMA (LONG READ)
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dingo
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Dingo
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Most all us here have gone through similar experiences... The Red Pill is hard to swallow... it's gonna hurt but you will survive.... Trust me.
Today's update: I just took her to work, she has a very short day today roughly 3 hours and as we got closer I said anyway, so shall I pick you up 7ish for dinner? Her response "errrm idk if im feeling it tonight, shall we do something tomorrow like go to the gym and spend the day together then have dinner?"
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Given her previous behavior and telling you On the way to work, Yes.
It's safe to assume she already has other plans for tonight.
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