Thorninmyside
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Friendzone would imply that she had any feelings towards you at all. Everything she's done, she's done for her. You're her b*tch and I hope you can see that.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MY BPD EXPERIENCE/DILEMMA (LONG READ)
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dingo
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Dingo
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Most all us here have gone through similar experiences... The Red Pill is hard to swallow... it's gonna hurt but you will survive.... Trust me.
Today's update: I just took her to work, she has a very short day today roughly 3 hours and as we got closer I said anyway, so shall I pick you up 7ish for dinner? Her response "errrm idk if im feeling it tonight, shall we do something tomorrow like go to the gym and spend the day together then have dinner?"
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
Is it safe to assume that in the last 12 hours better plans came up for her tonight ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Given her previous behavior and telling you On the way to work, Yes.
It's safe to assume she already has other plans for tonight.
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