StepItUpAnotch
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group orgy???
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'll be sure to tell "Elemental" that when I see him.Originally posted by Wyldfire
You, Elemental, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
You missed it...But you and Vincent can join in. Just grab him and bring him towards the back of the airplane for your two's fun.Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the siteOriginally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
I'm sure Gio and I will have a problem with THAT idea...Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?Originally posted by Vincent
yay chicks defining what a Don Juan is.
Whats next for this site I wonder...
Don't go that low man....don't go that low.Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
They might be to some, but a women defining a don juan is like a guy telling a chick how to act during that time of the month.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Ouch cheap shot.Originally posted by Porky
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
Good points Porky.Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.Originally posted by Eternal
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?
exactly, they are good points.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Good points Porky.
No comment on all the Eternal stuff, cuz I dunno him or his gf.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Woman...it's a frikkin INTERNET FORUM. Go away and get a life.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Originally posted by Porky
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.
I don't really see how you can be a challenge when she knows every game you play. If you ever have a problem with her, where are you going to turn to for advice? The moderator's corner? yeah, good luck with that.
if you can't see your own stupidity, you must be blind. no offense.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.