StepItUpAnotch
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group orgy???
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'll be sure to tell "Elemental" that when I see him.Originally posted by Wyldfire
You, Elemental, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
You missed it...But you and Vincent can join in. Just grab him and bring him towards the back of the airplane for your two's fun.Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the siteOriginally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
I'm sure Gio and I will have a problem with THAT idea...Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?Originally posted by Vincent
yay chicks defining what a Don Juan is.
Whats next for this site I wonder...
Don't go that low man....don't go that low.Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
They might be to some, but a women defining a don juan is like a guy telling a chick how to act during that time of the month.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Ouch cheap shot.Originally posted by Porky
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
Good points Porky.Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.Originally posted by Eternal
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?
exactly, they are good points.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Good points Porky.
No comment on all the Eternal stuff, cuz I dunno him or his gf.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Woman...it's a frikkin INTERNET FORUM. Go away and get a life.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Originally posted by Porky
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.
I don't really see how you can be a challenge when she knows every game you play. If you ever have a problem with her, where are you going to turn to for advice? The moderator's corner? yeah, good luck with that.
if you can't see your own stupidity, you must be blind. no offense.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.