StepItUpAnotch
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group orgy???
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Master Don Juan
Don't go that low man....don't go that low.Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site
Just Playing! A few of them are jailbait though. Always gotta worry about that you know..
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
Good points Porky.
No comment on all the Eternal stuff, cuz I dunno him or his gf.
Vincent....if you didn't skip over my post maybe this **** could've stayed off course. oh well.
Onwards my comrades! CHAAAARRRGE!!!
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.
I don't really see how you can be a challenge when she knows every game you play. If you ever have a problem with her, where are you going to turn to for advice? The moderator's corner? yeah, good luck with that.
if you can't see your own stupidity, you must be blind. no offense.
exactly, they are good points.
why didn't anybody say that when it was Wyldfire who made them?
don't complain when a woman can define what being a real DJ is better than the boys who moderate a site that claims to teach men how to get women. Just because she's right is no reason for you all to get so pissy.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Player_Supreme
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This thread is so apporpriate. For some reason being a mod on THIS site blows fellows ego's way out of proportion.
squirrels
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Woman...it's a frikkin INTERNET FORUM. Go away and get a life.
You need a hobby other than engaging in senseless drama with moderators on an Internet Forum. This isn't Auschwitz...no one is forcing you to be here against your will. No one is oppressing you. If you don't like it here, TURN THE COMPUTER OFF. Go shopping or whatever you chicks do to make yourselves feel better.
If you feel you're being discriminated against that bad, then LEAVE. Take your bible posts with you...I don't care. They're mediocre at best anyway.
No wonder you talk about COMPROMISE so much when you talk about relationships.
What I wonder, though, is what HE gets in return for agreeing to put up with your b!tchy sense of entitlement and your constant whining and drama-starting.
There, I took my shots. Don't bother returning fire, I won't care.
Desdinova
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Goddam, this thread is still going?
Okay people, I have a solution to this entire problem. Wyldfire get a faster internet connection. That way she won't be complaining about all the time she wasted on a thread because of her connection speed.
Problem fixed, everybody's happy
Okay people, I have a solution to this entire problem. Wyldfire get a faster internet connection. That way she won't be complaining about all the time she wasted on a thread because of her connection speed.
Problem fixed, everybody's happy
I'm not trying to start anything but I give ET his props for showing his girl the site. That shows you how open and good their relationship is.
P.S ET has been here for years I don't think he needs any advice.
he was asking for advice just a few months ago, which is a short amount of time considering "ET" has been here for years.
it's fine, though. since she's a girl maybe there will be somebody here more emotional and dramatic than he is.
it's fine, though. since she's a girl maybe there will be somebody here more emotional and dramatic than he is.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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