StepItUpAnotch
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group orgy???
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
AFK Protector
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Don't go that low man....don't go that low.Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site
Just Playing! A few of them are jailbait though. Always gotta worry about that you know..
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Master Don Juan
Good points Porky.
No comment on all the Eternal stuff, cuz I dunno him or his gf.
Vincent....if you didn't skip over my post maybe this **** could've stayed off course. oh well.
Onwards my comrades! CHAAAARRRGE!!!
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.
I don't really see how you can be a challenge when she knows every game you play. If you ever have a problem with her, where are you going to turn to for advice? The moderator's corner? yeah, good luck with that.
if you can't see your own stupidity, you must be blind. no offense.
exactly, they are good points.
why didn't anybody say that when it was Wyldfire who made them?
don't complain when a woman can define what being a real DJ is better than the boys who moderate a site that claims to teach men how to get women. Just because she's right is no reason for you all to get so pissy.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Player_Supreme
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This thread is so apporpriate. For some reason being a mod on THIS site blows fellows ego's way out of proportion.
squirrels
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Woman...it's a frikkin INTERNET FORUM. Go away and get a life.
You need a hobby other than engaging in senseless drama with moderators on an Internet Forum. This isn't Auschwitz...no one is forcing you to be here against your will. No one is oppressing you. If you don't like it here, TURN THE COMPUTER OFF. Go shopping or whatever you chicks do to make yourselves feel better.
If you feel you're being discriminated against that bad, then LEAVE. Take your bible posts with you...I don't care. They're mediocre at best anyway.
No wonder you talk about COMPROMISE so much when you talk about relationships.
What I wonder, though, is what HE gets in return for agreeing to put up with your b!tchy sense of entitlement and your constant whining and drama-starting.
There, I took my shots. Don't bother returning fire, I won't care.
Desdinova
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Goddam, this thread is still going?
Okay people, I have a solution to this entire problem. Wyldfire get a faster internet connection. That way she won't be complaining about all the time she wasted on a thread because of her connection speed.
Problem fixed, everybody's happy
Okay people, I have a solution to this entire problem. Wyldfire get a faster internet connection. That way she won't be complaining about all the time she wasted on a thread because of her connection speed.
Problem fixed, everybody's happy
I'm not trying to start anything but I give ET his props for showing his girl the site. That shows you how open and good their relationship is.
P.S ET has been here for years I don't think he needs any advice.
he was asking for advice just a few months ago, which is a short amount of time considering "ET" has been here for years.
it's fine, though. since she's a girl maybe there will be somebody here more emotional and dramatic than he is.
it's fine, though. since she's a girl maybe there will be somebody here more emotional and dramatic than he is.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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