StepItUpAnotch
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group orgy???
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'll be sure to tell "Elemental" that when I see him.Originally posted by Wyldfire
You, Elemental, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
You missed it...But you and Vincent can join in. Just grab him and bring him towards the back of the airplane for your two's fun.Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the siteOriginally posted by StepItUpAnotch
group orgy???
I'm sure Gio and I will have a problem with THAT idea...Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?Originally posted by Vincent
yay chicks defining what a Don Juan is.
Whats next for this site I wonder...
Don't go that low man....don't go that low.Originally posted by Vincent
As long as this group is me, and every lady on the site![]()
They might be to some, but a women defining a don juan is like a guy telling a chick how to act during that time of the month.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Ouch cheap shot.Originally posted by Porky
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
Good points Porky.Originally posted by Porky
A "real DJ" is mature. He's not defensive, can take constructive criticism like a man instead of like a boy. He is confident but he doesn't come across as being egotistical...he doesn't NEED to. He doesn't need to make himself look like a better person by insulting and demeaning others.
You, Eternal, are not a "real DJ", not by a long shot.
my thoughts exactly.
hey Eternal, you're a real G. Way to bring your girl onto this site.
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.Originally posted by Eternal
What does me showing my girl this site have anything to do with me being a "DJ" or not? You jealous or something?
exactly, they are good points.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Good points Porky.
No comment on all the Eternal stuff, cuz I dunno him or his gf.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Woman...it's a frikkin INTERNET FORUM. Go away and get a life.Originally posted by Wyldfire
So you are claiming that the qualities I described are not the traits of a "real DJ"?
Originally posted by Porky
why should I be? if anything I'd be happy for you.
I don't really see how you can be a challenge when she knows every game you play. If you ever have a problem with her, where are you going to turn to for advice? The moderator's corner? yeah, good luck with that.
if you can't see your own stupidity, you must be blind. no offense.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.