MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mature single woman miffed at men's profiles demanding that the woman be fit
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Atom Smasher
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Rumor has it that this mass of flesh overcame the moon’s pull and actually brought the tide back in.
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Is this the "nightmare" level where enemy soldiers in call of duty are all juggernaughts and it needs 3 times to ammo to be taken down?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Lmao! Yet these whales still think they deserve some in shape guy...
Yes you deserve someone that is going to settle I guess.
Yes you deserve someone that is going to settle I guess.
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They dont think to deserve a random guy in shape, they demand a guy with above average genetics and above average shape.
Basically they expect a tall man witha decent hairline with an athlete body willing to commit to them...its beyond delusional.
Dash Riprock
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When the already overly-obese US gets back to singles meetups, post pandemic, lol.
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I've nexted women that are probably no more than 140 lbs and otherwise good looking that a lot of guys would have gone for because they have too much fat around their midsection...I don't want to see it through a shirt...it just is gross to me.
Guys need to have standards and stick to them. I am not saying that others should be based on my criteria but whatever your criteria is when someone doesn't meet them it needs to be a hard pass.
mrgoodstuff
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Who is going to help women get better in bed? Entitled folk do what they do. They won't try to learn what you like.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
don't give up; try different approaches.
Personally,
I find it challenging to help someone get muscular AND/OR good in bed.
Not sure I could be a paid coach in these two themes, lol
mrgoodstuff
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Its easiest for man and woman to find someone who wants to work well with them up front. Trying to force and figure out means they just don't care enough and it's okay.
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I read the initital article. This is someone who married in her early 20s and had a 30 year long marriage before her husband died. In this era, that's fairly impressive.
All she really needs to do is put down the doughnuts and start working out. Her laziness is apparent through the article when she says she can't meet men in real life. and has to rely on websites/apps. If she were a fit early to mid 50 something, she'd be meeting men in real life.
All she really needs to do is put down the doughnuts and start working out. Her laziness is apparent through the article when she says she can't meet men in real life. and has to rely on websites/apps. If she were a fit early to mid 50 something, she'd be meeting men in real life.
trust, but verify.
athlete body committing to themselves is enough. And rare asf.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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In the last 3 month I've been stuck in the same place with no chance to work so decided to get in good shape and did it.
I can assure you most girl I met from tinder complained and moaned when I said no alchool and no junk food...being called boring and even obsessed many times.
mrgoodstuff
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Attainable though if the desire and committment is high enough. If you haven't done it before, count on it taking 2x as long as you think. 1-2 yrs for most who never did it. If you been there and just fat, give it 6 months to strip the fat and reactivate the sleeping muscle.
mrgoodstuff
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Yep. "Fitness" and "Committment" isn't fun for most, unless they are also in the fitness area, or goal setting high achievers.
did you really? you succeeded!!!!
that's all I read out of there.
**** them.
Start a new acct with new search parameters. age of chic, location of chic.
And you're living clean? I'm srs happy for you!
You got this, don't give up. You are high smv right now.
Just reorganise your body pics and try brutal honesty in profile. Something c*cky/funny.
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Ss member whodareswin just did it in 3 months? Wtf? So proud.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.