MatureDJ
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mature single woman miffed at men's profiles demanding that the woman be fit
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Atom Smasher
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Rumor has it that this mass of flesh overcame the moon’s pull and actually brought the tide back in.
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Is this the "nightmare" level where enemy soldiers in call of duty are all juggernaughts and it needs 3 times to ammo to be taken down?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BackInTheGame78
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Lmao! Yet these whales still think they deserve some in shape guy...
Yes you deserve someone that is going to settle I guess.
Yes you deserve someone that is going to settle I guess.
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They dont think to deserve a random guy in shape, they demand a guy with above average genetics and above average shape.
Basically they expect a tall man witha decent hairline with an athlete body willing to commit to them...its beyond delusional.
Dash Riprock
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When the already overly-obese US gets back to singles meetups, post pandemic, lol.
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I've nexted women that are probably no more than 140 lbs and otherwise good looking that a lot of guys would have gone for because they have too much fat around their midsection...I don't want to see it through a shirt...it just is gross to me.
Guys need to have standards and stick to them. I am not saying that others should be based on my criteria but whatever your criteria is when someone doesn't meet them it needs to be a hard pass.
mrgoodstuff
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Who is going to help women get better in bed? Entitled folk do what they do. They won't try to learn what you like.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
don't give up; try different approaches.
Personally,
I find it challenging to help someone get muscular AND/OR good in bed.
Not sure I could be a paid coach in these two themes, lol
mrgoodstuff
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Its easiest for man and woman to find someone who wants to work well with them up front. Trying to force and figure out means they just don't care enough and it's okay.
SW15
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I read the initital article. This is someone who married in her early 20s and had a 30 year long marriage before her husband died. In this era, that's fairly impressive.
All she really needs to do is put down the doughnuts and start working out. Her laziness is apparent through the article when she says she can't meet men in real life. and has to rely on websites/apps. If she were a fit early to mid 50 something, she'd be meeting men in real life.
All she really needs to do is put down the doughnuts and start working out. Her laziness is apparent through the article when she says she can't meet men in real life. and has to rely on websites/apps. If she were a fit early to mid 50 something, she'd be meeting men in real life.
trust, but verify.
athlete body committing to themselves is enough. And rare asf.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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In the last 3 month I've been stuck in the same place with no chance to work so decided to get in good shape and did it.
I can assure you most girl I met from tinder complained and moaned when I said no alchool and no junk food...being called boring and even obsessed many times.
mrgoodstuff
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Attainable though if the desire and committment is high enough. If you haven't done it before, count on it taking 2x as long as you think. 1-2 yrs for most who never did it. If you been there and just fat, give it 6 months to strip the fat and reactivate the sleeping muscle.
mrgoodstuff
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Yep. "Fitness" and "Committment" isn't fun for most, unless they are also in the fitness area, or goal setting high achievers.
did you really? you succeeded!!!!
that's all I read out of there.
**** them.
Start a new acct with new search parameters. age of chic, location of chic.
And you're living clean? I'm srs happy for you!
You got this, don't give up. You are high smv right now.
Just reorganise your body pics and try brutal honesty in profile. Something c*cky/funny.
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Ss member whodareswin just did it in 3 months? Wtf? So proud.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.