"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Let's play a game... it's called "Top My Warpig"
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I
FVCKEN
HATE
YOU
FOR
THAT
IT
WILL
BE
IN
MY
NIGHTMARES
FOREVER
NOW
!!!
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD!!! NO ONE CLICK ON THAT LINK AND A MOD PLEASE DELETE THE LINK FOR EVERYONE'S SAKE!!!
spider_007
Master Don Juan
DAMN!!!!!!!
somebody needs to teach her about cristianity (i'm not into religion, but even i know better)
Originally posted by Chillisauce
Haha, i think this guy may have already beat you to it.
NSFW - not safe for work or your sanity, only click this link if your mind is already scared.
http://www.livejournal.com/communit...ort/347374.html
NSFW
i'm having second thought about cuttion off my penis now.
http://photobucket.com/albums/y276/jeididit/Topless Halo Party/?action=view¤t=100_0104.jpg
Behold: Big Bertha!
Stay in guys. Eat that piece of cake. Don't get a haircut. Just go play videogames and dont make any efforts to socialize or talk to girls. Bertha will be waiting!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
mroriginal
Banned
How can you make fun of people you dont even know?what if one of them happen check this site out and see herself in this thread?Me being a heterosexual saw the **** get cut off and if that was real, blood would be flushing out of that thing like a hose.
Chillisauce
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If someone like this came around i think i'd just flee in terror:
http://jeremcph.tripod.com/sitebuildercontent/sitebuilderpictures/.pond/ugly20girl.jpg.w180h180.jpg
silverwex
Master Don Juan
http://meetme.hotornot.com/?10c6b=68715
No one should be sticking up for them. American women get way too much slack as it is. In America it seems as if only men get laughed at for how they look. Hell, American men are not so bad looking. It is the female portion of the population that has become an international joke.
Please. If you know a woman that is like the women in those pics do us all a favor and tell her that she needs to lose weight.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
If that doesn't work, her Xanga's URL is: http://www.xanga.com/sweetchild2003
... Sadly, I know this girl in real life. And we were drunk once and
CAN WE CHANGE SUBJECTS NOW?!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DrBeard
Banned
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
^That was just the warmup.
http://myspace-928.vo.llnwd.net/00525/82/90/525320928_l.jpg
^I win the thread.
Chillisauce
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, but you do get runner up.http://www.220.ro/stuff/Finalistele_la_Miss_Romania________.htm
Docs
Banned
The one on the right, she could pass for a guy, I don't know how?
The middle is the best looking, however...not bag-material anyways.
What a world
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.