"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've had enough

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's almost like we don't live in a society, isn't it MDJ?

Just gotta lay low until we stop having governance.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
The mods can wipe your past and current existence from the sosuave universe, but then all of the It's OVER jokes would disappear too, and that would be unfortunate.
 

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Nah, they just learning how to call ukranian soldiers names, they are not watching porn, remember, no internet on the front lines, nearest cell tower could be 100 miles away.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
We've picked up on this and forwarded it to the admin. He will get in touch with you regarding account termination eventually.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
Relax. You need to look at a good ASMR video for therapy. Do a search for one under "therapy" or "removing negative energy".

Then see if you still want to self-terminate this account after watching those same videos that you said you've watched before.
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
 

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
This is a tragedy exceeded only by the plague of Justinian and the decline of Hanson's career, once The 2000s were upon us. Whether or not humanity can survive such a catstrophe is doubtful at best
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
Uh, that's only done when someone requests it.

People are free to simply log out and never come back to the site. Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
13 Reasons Why hoodwinked many into believing that taking a swan dive off The Golden Gate Bridge, or washing one's yap out with a Desert Eagle, is no longer sufficiently theatrical. We now have to make our own self-deletions into a Broadway show, the gaudiness of which exceeds even that of Spiderman: Turn Off The Dark
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
As much as I hate reddit, they're smart by ALWAYS leaving threads open. You can start a thread and delete your name linked to it, but the thread remains open. That's how a platform grows.

Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.

Threads should remain opened indefinitely.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.
Can you hop off my d***?

You are in every single thread I've made or replied to, regardless of topic. Stop giving your advice, I don't want it, you don't have the solution to my problem, and you didn't "apologize" in DMs like you said openly.

In all seriousness, shut the f*** up dude.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight
We all miss the days of GeoCities, where if you found someone's words disagreeable, you simply ignored them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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