"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've had enough

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's almost like we don't live in a society, isn't it MDJ?

Just gotta lay low until we stop having governance.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
The mods can wipe your past and current existence from the sosuave universe, but then all of the It's OVER jokes would disappear too, and that would be unfortunate.
 

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Nah, they just learning how to call ukranian soldiers names, they are not watching porn, remember, no internet on the front lines, nearest cell tower could be 100 miles away.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
We've picked up on this and forwarded it to the admin. He will get in touch with you regarding account termination eventually.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
Relax. You need to look at a good ASMR video for therapy. Do a search for one under "therapy" or "removing negative energy".

Then see if you still want to self-terminate this account after watching those same videos that you said you've watched before.
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
 

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
This is a tragedy exceeded only by the plague of Justinian and the decline of Hanson's career, once The 2000s were upon us. Whether or not humanity can survive such a catstrophe is doubtful at best
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
Uh, that's only done when someone requests it.

People are free to simply log out and never come back to the site. Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
13 Reasons Why hoodwinked many into believing that taking a swan dive off The Golden Gate Bridge, or washing one's yap out with a Desert Eagle, is no longer sufficiently theatrical. We now have to make our own self-deletions into a Broadway show, the gaudiness of which exceeds even that of Spiderman: Turn Off The Dark
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
As much as I hate reddit, they're smart by ALWAYS leaving threads open. You can start a thread and delete your name linked to it, but the thread remains open. That's how a platform grows.

Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.

Threads should remain opened indefinitely.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.
Can you hop off my d***?

You are in every single thread I've made or replied to, regardless of topic. Stop giving your advice, I don't want it, you don't have the solution to my problem, and you didn't "apologize" in DMs like you said openly.

In all seriousness, shut the f*** up dude.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight
We all miss the days of GeoCities, where if you found someone's words disagreeable, you simply ignored them
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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