"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've had enough

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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It's almost like we don't live in a society, isn't it MDJ?

Just gotta lay low until we stop having governance.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
The mods can wipe your past and current existence from the sosuave universe, but then all of the It's OVER jokes would disappear too, and that would be unfortunate.
 

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Nah, they just learning how to call ukranian soldiers names, they are not watching porn, remember, no internet on the front lines, nearest cell tower could be 100 miles away.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
We've picked up on this and forwarded it to the admin. He will get in touch with you regarding account termination eventually.
 

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I've just tried to post an interesting article about how North Korean soldiers being sent to the Russo-Ukrainian War were overwhelming using their freedom to look at internet porn, and I was given a "last warning". This is a topic that is relevant to the sexual situation - that the first thing that repressed young men do is look at porn.

Again, I've had enough. I am self-terminating this account.

EDIT: I can't figure out how to self-terminate this account. I'd like for someone to tell me how.
Relax. You need to look at a good ASMR video for therapy. Do a search for one under "therapy" or "removing negative energy".

Then see if you still want to self-terminate this account after watching those same videos that you said you've watched before.
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
 

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OK, I suppose that I will let my legacy live on here, but my engagement is OVER.
This is a tragedy exceeded only by the plague of Justinian and the decline of Hanson's career, once The 2000s were upon us. Whether or not humanity can survive such a catstrophe is doubtful at best
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
Uh, that's only done when someone requests it.

People are free to simply log out and never come back to the site. Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Unsure why the act of "deleting" an account is so important.
13 Reasons Why hoodwinked many into believing that taking a swan dive off The Golden Gate Bridge, or washing one's yap out with a Desert Eagle, is no longer sufficiently theatrical. We now have to make our own self-deletions into a Broadway show, the gaudiness of which exceeds even that of Spiderman: Turn Off The Dark
 

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When admin deletes you, they delete all the threads you started, which means all the posts on those threads also get deleted. There was a disgraced mod here who had that done, and unfortunately I had been a contributor to a very long thread he had started. It was news stories about acts of heroism. Posting here is a waste of time if they just arbitrarily delete your posts.
As much as I hate reddit, they're smart by ALWAYS leaving threads open. You can start a thread and delete your name linked to it, but the thread remains open. That's how a platform grows.

Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.

Threads should remain opened indefinitely.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight.
Can you hop off my d***?

You are in every single thread I've made or replied to, regardless of topic. Stop giving your advice, I don't want it, you don't have the solution to my problem, and you didn't "apologize" in DMs like you said openly.

In all seriousness, shut the f*** up dude.
 

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Recently someone..made a thread , got some pushback and like a toddler he cried to close the thread and the damn admins even listened to him! Basically allowing him to throw a punch and then break up the fight
We all miss the days of GeoCities, where if you found someone's words disagreeable, you simply ignored them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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