"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Isn't just a shame when hot girls are fat?
- Thread starter silenthill
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
stevera004
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It is small waist to hip ratios (that is, waist at 70% of hips) that generally indicates fitness. Why do you think otherwise? And "Just because" is not a good answer.
Socialreject
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Can't say i agree. I hate it when someone worships beauty. Not cause i'm ugly, or date ugly chicks, but simply because it's ignorant. Personally i don't give a damn how someone looks (5-6-7-8 WHATEVER) aslong as i'm attrackted to them that will suffice. I have to say i dislike fat chicks BUT i like some meat. I dislike skinny atleast asmuch as i dislike fat. Marilyn Monroe shapes are kind of my ideal in a woman.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
h2o
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glad someone pointed it out, amidst the cries of "i'd fcuk her" and "no i wouldn't fcuk her"
point being. take a look at yourself. if you're chiseled and think you deserve better, then go for it. if you're not in perfect shape yourself, you can't ask for a girl in perfect shape ... i mean you can, and good luck with that, because women are not blind, and looks matter to them to.
know your limits ... it is not to say have self-limiting beliefs but the energy spent on trying to get a an athletic-bodied hb9 when you're not exactly fit, is too much energy imo. that's the pua route.
you reap what you sow ... it's so true.
and everyone has different standards.
but hey, back to the OP...one of my old friends in middle/high school used to say something along those lines of "she would be hot if she lost some weight" and one occasion he actually dated the girl, and made her jog/exercise with him until she did lose weight. and she looked pretty good afterwards.
haha, we always joked with him about it, but it could actually be a good idea if you're up for it. get a chubby girl, and make her into the girl you want, lol. so maybe try that?
Egoist
Master Don Juan
its sooo easy to call someone ignorant :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True, but having a gut is seldom if ever the sign of a healthy person.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You're comparing something that can be achieved through healthy, active lifestyle and exercise to something that can only be achieved through either extremely lucky genetics or expensive cosmetic surgery? Get over yourself. Fat is fat, and fat is unattractive.
To the original poster- I know what you mean. It sucks when there's a girl who has a really cute face, but she's just a bit too chubby to be considered "hot" or "fvckable".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You're new here, right?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, it done mostly when someone is so self indulged in being right that any other opinion isn't easily understood or respected. It obviously can't be a lacking on their part so it must be ignorance of the other person.
Hey don't laugh, it makes complete sense to some people....
