"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Isn't just a shame when hot girls are fat?
- Thread starter silenthill
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
stevera004
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It is small waist to hip ratios (that is, waist at 70% of hips) that generally indicates fitness. Why do you think otherwise? And "Just because" is not a good answer.
Socialreject
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Can't say i agree. I hate it when someone worships beauty. Not cause i'm ugly, or date ugly chicks, but simply because it's ignorant. Personally i don't give a damn how someone looks (5-6-7-8 WHATEVER) aslong as i'm attrackted to them that will suffice. I have to say i dislike fat chicks BUT i like some meat. I dislike skinny atleast asmuch as i dislike fat. Marilyn Monroe shapes are kind of my ideal in a woman.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
h2o
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glad someone pointed it out, amidst the cries of "i'd fcuk her" and "no i wouldn't fcuk her"
point being. take a look at yourself. if you're chiseled and think you deserve better, then go for it. if you're not in perfect shape yourself, you can't ask for a girl in perfect shape ... i mean you can, and good luck with that, because women are not blind, and looks matter to them to.
know your limits ... it is not to say have self-limiting beliefs but the energy spent on trying to get a an athletic-bodied hb9 when you're not exactly fit, is too much energy imo. that's the pua route.
you reap what you sow ... it's so true.
and everyone has different standards.
but hey, back to the OP...one of my old friends in middle/high school used to say something along those lines of "she would be hot if she lost some weight" and one occasion he actually dated the girl, and made her jog/exercise with him until she did lose weight. and she looked pretty good afterwards.
haha, we always joked with him about it, but it could actually be a good idea if you're up for it. get a chubby girl, and make her into the girl you want, lol. so maybe try that?
Egoist
Master Don Juan
its sooo easy to call someone ignorant :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True, but having a gut is seldom if ever the sign of a healthy person.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You're comparing something that can be achieved through healthy, active lifestyle and exercise to something that can only be achieved through either extremely lucky genetics or expensive cosmetic surgery? Get over yourself. Fat is fat, and fat is unattractive.
To the original poster- I know what you mean. It sucks when there's a girl who has a really cute face, but she's just a bit too chubby to be considered "hot" or "fvckable".
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You're new here, right?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, it done mostly when someone is so self indulged in being right that any other opinion isn't easily understood or respected. It obviously can't be a lacking on their part so it must be ignorance of the other person.
Hey don't laugh, it makes complete sense to some people....
