"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Isn't just a shame when hot girls are fat?
- Thread starter silenthill
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
stevera004
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It is small waist to hip ratios (that is, waist at 70% of hips) that generally indicates fitness. Why do you think otherwise? And "Just because" is not a good answer.
Socialreject
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Can't say i agree. I hate it when someone worships beauty. Not cause i'm ugly, or date ugly chicks, but simply because it's ignorant. Personally i don't give a damn how someone looks (5-6-7-8 WHATEVER) aslong as i'm attrackted to them that will suffice. I have to say i dislike fat chicks BUT i like some meat. I dislike skinny atleast asmuch as i dislike fat. Marilyn Monroe shapes are kind of my ideal in a woman.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
h2o
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glad someone pointed it out, amidst the cries of "i'd fcuk her" and "no i wouldn't fcuk her"
point being. take a look at yourself. if you're chiseled and think you deserve better, then go for it. if you're not in perfect shape yourself, you can't ask for a girl in perfect shape ... i mean you can, and good luck with that, because women are not blind, and looks matter to them to.
know your limits ... it is not to say have self-limiting beliefs but the energy spent on trying to get a an athletic-bodied hb9 when you're not exactly fit, is too much energy imo. that's the pua route.
you reap what you sow ... it's so true.
and everyone has different standards.
but hey, back to the OP...one of my old friends in middle/high school used to say something along those lines of "she would be hot if she lost some weight" and one occasion he actually dated the girl, and made her jog/exercise with him until she did lose weight. and she looked pretty good afterwards.
haha, we always joked with him about it, but it could actually be a good idea if you're up for it. get a chubby girl, and make her into the girl you want, lol. so maybe try that?
Egoist
Master Don Juan
its sooo easy to call someone ignorant :crackup:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True, but having a gut is seldom if ever the sign of a healthy person.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
You're comparing something that can be achieved through healthy, active lifestyle and exercise to something that can only be achieved through either extremely lucky genetics or expensive cosmetic surgery? Get over yourself. Fat is fat, and fat is unattractive.
To the original poster- I know what you mean. It sucks when there's a girl who has a really cute face, but she's just a bit too chubby to be considered "hot" or "fvckable".
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You're new here, right?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, it done mostly when someone is so self indulged in being right that any other opinion isn't easily understood or respected. It obviously can't be a lacking on their part so it must be ignorance of the other person.
Hey don't laugh, it makes complete sense to some people....
