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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
HyenaPrince
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I'd be worried about you if you were.
Lol. I wasnt greek
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Nothing about the energy or anything else felt "funny"? You see with those soroties and fraternities it's "them" and everyone else is outsiders. Likely if there is a guy, it's someone from her past from the right frat. Also her sororitie sisters priority and viewpoints will override you, you are kind of a prop. A "Ken doll". If you got alot of game, the "Ken Doll" can have it pretty good. Especially if her sisters are jealous and want to fvck, if none of them would want you, then she wouuld be reluctant and lose interest as well. They all make joint decisions. Key points in your household were likely analyzed by her group.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
That's what he's saying. They aren't going to care about you at all.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Very true. I had no idea of the GDI...mentality. of its them vs everyone else.
She does talk to her sorority sisters and confides in them more than i couldve imagined...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Did she give you some of that kind of action?
1st mistake.
2nd mistake, trying to cover up.
For making her less guilty, she blames you and now that she has done it, it's all your fault that she's gonna do something behind ur back.
Of course she's innocent of all charges, women's logic is simply amazing.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Hell, one of them probably asked that she start fvcking you again... Be that "Ken Doll". Even in a more "cleaner" situation, this is what they've done to men. One of the main defences is to have a seriously high SMV where all her girls would fvck you in a second if they could.
Not really. Weve done it a few times
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HyenaPrince
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Damn. Just imagine what kind of crap they're putting into her head. Not that it would make a difference. But they're definitely encouraging her to go through with some dirty things she wouldn't have thought of by herself.
Oh im sure... they were some party girls...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
As a treat. Cheaters are kinda crazy. They'll space out days between hubs and her side dude. She might even have you in different holes. Easier for them to compartmentalize.
HyenaPrince
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Group situations always dumb down the individual. The IQ decreases to a common value so nobody has to think for themselves. With women it's even worse. Because they're so insecure they literally go along with EVERYTHING the group decides.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It is, they surely have a way to manage things to absolve themselves of any guilt and responsibility.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Oh yeh. I hear all the time..."this is all your fault... u did this"
No matter the fight. I remind her it takes 2 to fight... but shell say its all my fault...
She just doesn't care.
She does now... for the moment
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
In her sorority culture they build an ego ( narcissistic ) and manage it. So she'll lie more and be more self serving.
Now that I've read most of the thread and ur replies herein, best you start preparing an exit strategy.
No man should endure what you are enduring.
Even if it means leaving ur kids, because ultimately even if you do stay on, the resentments will only build on over time, from you towards her, and her disrespect will continue to get from bad to worse.
And the worst part throughout, if you stay on, your OWN KIDS will disrespect you.
2nd time ever I'm asking someone here to get out of a marriage.
Find the prove 1st before anything, hire a private investigator.
No man should endure what you are enduring.
Even if it means leaving ur kids, because ultimately even if you do stay on, the resentments will only build on over time, from you towards her, and her disrespect will continue to get from bad to worse.
And the worst part throughout, if you stay on, your OWN KIDS will disrespect you.
2nd time ever I'm asking someone here to get out of a marriage.
Find the prove 1st before anything, hire a private investigator.
No. Not my 1st. He doeant resemble me. He actually has a few characteristics of her ex she left me at the bar for...
I kid u not.
Also. Somehow... she talked me into not naming my 1st after me at all. We went with a unique 1st name but ... the middle name is after her mothers maiden...
She rationalized it... i felt i was being cool...flexible.
But now... it pisses me off and makes me wonder her purpose in that...
Yeh. She has made comments to me like... "next" when in an arguement... like whos next for her..
I looked at her like... wtf...
Im come to hear that next is a greek mentality...
Theres always more put there
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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