"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm going to write a book, for all of you

snowdog

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Some of you might know me. I write a sh*t load of stuff on this forum. Not many random posts, but always long stories and theories. The two links in my signature will show you what I mean.

I'm 100% sure I'm going to get successful real soon, I can feel it. If you read my journal, you can tell I'm improving with every post I put in there.

I came from an amazingly sh*tty position. Really, it was extremely sh*tty. And I'm out of that, and I'm moving towards a great thing. I know that when I get into the groove of the whole girl thing, I will ace it. Sometimes I get these little hints here and there that show me that I'm really about to breakthrough in this. And I will. Everything I achieved, I struggled to get there. But I got there eventually.

I want to help others out who are lost in what they are supposed to do about their situation. I look around and I recognize my old self in a lot of people. Painfully insecure, unable to act, unable to even talk to girls.

I'm currently writing a book with all the useful information I gathered over the past years. The book will be done when I am where I want to be with girls. Because only then, I'll be able to add the final chapters. Only firsthand information, things that worked for me, broken down as easily as possible. Check the 'Snowdogs super tips' thread, it'll be in that style.

I'll promise you that it'll rock. I never believed in donating money to charity, but I believe in people that want to help themselves. The book I'm writing will be very compact information, and it will be written in the same style as I'm writing on here.

And I won't be charging any money for it. Why? Because I want to help people out. Because I know how much it f*cking sucks to fail at this.

Once it's done, I'll launch a website with a free download as a PDF.

When it'll be done? Well, just keep following my journal. Eventually there will be big success stories in there, it'll be a matter of time. That's a promise :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can relate a lot to you snowdog.

I'll be waiting with anticipation.
 

snowdog

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Currently at 4000 words. I'm liking it quite a lot how it's taking shape so far.

And I'm still improving myself. I'm trying to get that done as soon as possible, so I can work on this cool little project of mine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you are very inspirational my friend. keep it up
 

snowdog

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8875 right now, cut some parts out, and changed some bits as well. definitely going somewhere.

I hit a low point a couple of weeks ago, and I learned from that ****. It gives me inspiration.

I'm the tortured artist. LOVE MEH!!!!11
 

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sounds good. I like the angle. :) Right now I am at probably where you were at the beginning of your book. lol
 

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No problem there, just send the money to me ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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snowdog

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I'm going to put a donate button on the site. Whether people want to pay me for it, it's going to be their choice. I'm not doing this for money. Sure it'll be nice, but I mainly do it to help other guys like (once) me. A lot of times I feel sorry for guys by just lookin' at them. Good dudes who deserve to get laid but don't while f*cking ass-holes do.
 

Darth

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Hey snowdog,

I appreciate you doing this, and I hope it'll help other people realize what I (and you too) had to figure out on your own, and that is...get your own insecurities and past/childhood straightened out first. No matter how bad you are at certain things, you, as a person, don't need to be FIXED. This idea that my identity was faulty translated into paralyzing insecurity for me.

I didn't realize how much energy and effort my brain was expending trying to hold everything together until after I overcame the problem. All this brainpower devoted to trying to "fix" oneself and project a different outer self than you really are. Basically a lifetime of acting.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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