I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
For example @eli77, 2024 federal poverty level in Florida for a single person will be $14,580. Plus 25% is $18,225/yr…You might want to look into the I-864.
The Form I-864 Affidavit of Support obligates you, as the sponsor, to support your immigrant spouse—and now ex-spouse—at an amount that's 125% or more of the U.S. Poverty Guidelines levels until your ex spouse either:
- earns 40 work quarters credited toward Social Security (approximately ten years of work)
- becomes a U.S. citizen
- dies, or
- permanently leaves the United States.
I wouldn't do it. That 10K is not worth your effective freedom. In fact she can legally have you on the hook for more than that in the future. Trust has to be earned, you can't just trust anyone.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
It's a scam and that's all that needs to be said.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
There are pros and cons to committing immigration fraud. Sounds like you've only considered the pros.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
fair enough at least i had friends and family go through the same situation.There are pros and cons to committing immigration fraud. Sounds like you've only considered the pros.