"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was offered twenty thousand to get married:)

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Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My best friend at the time did it. Its surprisingly easy to do. I think she was supposed to give him 10k.
 

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These women are buying US citizenship, nothing more. If you live in an alimony or any other male negative divorce state you could be in for some future financial hurt once she’s ready for the divorce.
 

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You might want to look into the I-864.


The Form I-864 Affidavit of Support obligates you, as the sponsor, to support your immigrant spouse—and now ex-spouse—at an amount that's 125% or more of the U.S. Poverty Guidelines levels until your ex spouse either:

  • earns 40 work quarters credited toward Social Security (approximately ten years of work)
  • becomes a U.S. citizen
  • dies, or
  • permanently leaves the United States.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You might want to look into the I-864.


The Form I-864 Affidavit of Support obligates you, as the sponsor, to support your immigrant spouse—and now ex-spouse—at an amount that's 125% or more of the U.S. Poverty Guidelines levels until your ex spouse either:

  • earns 40 work quarters credited toward Social Security (approximately ten years of work)
  • becomes a U.S. citizen
  • dies, or
  • permanently leaves the United States.
For example @eli77, 2024 federal poverty level in Florida for a single person will be $14,580. Plus 25% is $18,225/yr…
True hungry man sucker play
 

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Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
I wouldn't do it. That 10K is not worth your effective freedom. In fact she can legally have you on the hook for more than that in the future. Trust has to be earned, you can't just trust anyone.
 

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Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
It's a scam and that's all that needs to be said.
 

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I've heard about this in the past and when I was very sore after the 2012 ex-gf break-up the following year, for most of 2013, in particular the early part of 2013 I was even thinking of that option as a rebound from that break-up.

Now, I have been reading your threads and I'm not sure of people are really helping you on here come to terms of the crises you have experienced. Have you considered counselling or visitng a grief counsellor to help you process what you've been through? How has the legal case been coming along?

I read your threads and what I see is that they sound very escapist quick solutions that I would be fantasizing about a decade ago.
I thought about this, about going to a foreign country, going on that loveme.com website to socialize with women in other countries and eventually visit them, going on a sex-tour, you name it. The only thing you have not mentioned is trying out pheromones to attract women.
Have you thought about pheromones? It might be cheaper than the other high risk options ($ 100 or so with a money back guarantee if it doesn't work, is better than life and limb with somethign you don't know about).

In answer to this thread, you know I agree with marriage, and it will give you at least some exposure to women. You are exploring areas I only thought about but never pursued and I'd be really interested in seeing where this would be going. Don't worry about the other nay-sayers, they have things to lose in their life by trying out things like that. People like us can't really get scammed since we don't have anything to lose in the first place and won't likely be worst off trying out something new. Let us know how it goes.
 

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Were you offered a large sum of money from someone who wants to transfer the money from Nigeria since they can't use their local bank?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
There are pros and cons to committing immigration fraud. Sounds like you've only considered the pros.
 
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