She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
For example @eli77, 2024 federal poverty level in Florida for a single person will be $14,580. Plus 25% is $18,225/yr…You might want to look into the I-864.
The Form I-864 Affidavit of Support obligates you, as the sponsor, to support your immigrant spouse—and now ex-spouse—at an amount that's 125% or more of the U.S. Poverty Guidelines levels until your ex spouse either:
- earns 40 work quarters credited toward Social Security (approximately ten years of work)
- becomes a U.S. citizen
- dies, or
- permanently leaves the United States.
I wouldn't do it. That 10K is not worth your effective freedom. In fact she can legally have you on the hook for more than that in the future. Trust has to be earned, you can't just trust anyone.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
It's a scam and that's all that needs to be said.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There are pros and cons to committing immigration fraud. Sounds like you've only considered the pros.Ive been in this position before my brother got away with it and so did a close female friend from the south what has been your experience with this type of thing.So call fake and paid marriages?
fair enough at least i had friends and family go through the same situation.There are pros and cons to committing immigration fraud. Sounds like you've only considered the pros.