Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I've been reading this more and more, and by osmosis, adopting it more into my actions and life strategy. Change is often scary but it feels better than the alternative.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
If it feel scary that means you're doing what you are supposed to be doing. It's like building muscle - you don't build it by lifting puny weights you can rep for like 50x. You pick a semi challenging weight that you can lift only like 10x. Over time your muscle will adapt to that stress and you will be able to do more reps/lift heavier. It's the same thing with life - you need to challenge yourself in order to grow. Here is the secret: most people are not and settle for mundane/mediocrity.