kickureface
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do you have any idea on how it came about?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I have cancer
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I don't think they really know the real causes of Hodgkin's? Viral, who knows? It does strike young people I knew a guy in high school Senior class who found out he had Hodgkin's just before graduation. He had a lump...usually in the groin or the armpit. He underwent treatment for a while, came out of it OK, went on to become a doctor. He missed the first year of college, but he used his experience to leap forward tremendously.
Good luck wolf, hang in there and be strong.
Good luck wolf, hang in there and be strong.
Quiksilver
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What city do you live in?
I just moved out here and need someone to teach me how to surf
I just moved out here and need someone to teach me how to surf
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Best of luck Wolf.
Might not mean much, but I'm sure the whole community here is behind you.
Might not mean much, but I'm sure the whole community here is behind you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Wolf, five years from now this thread will be 500 pages long and more focused on your advice as a cancer survivor. But you have a lot of work to put in first. Good luck with everything.
Yeah I guess I don't really care about my deadlift now that I know how to use a gym, I can always start again.EFFORT said:
When I get through this it will be because of doctors saving my life. There's nothing I can really do except eat well and stay positive.
I sent you a PM Quiksilver.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
determination is your first weapon of defense.
telling yourself and believing that you will not let cancer take you, is something you need to do daily.
telling yourself, i will not have cancer for long, will spark more hope inside yourself than just being silent about it.
start a blog and get your feelings out.
you can do that on your myspace page.
don't stop being you just because you have an illness.
perhaps it will go into remission very soon.
we are all here rooting for you wolf. please continue to let us know how you are doing by updating your thread.
our family will pray for you to over come this.
telling yourself and believing that you will not let cancer take you, is something you need to do daily.
telling yourself, i will not have cancer for long, will spark more hope inside yourself than just being silent about it.
start a blog and get your feelings out.
you can do that on your myspace page.
don't stop being you just because you have an illness.
perhaps it will go into remission very soon.
we are all here rooting for you wolf. please continue to let us know how you are doing by updating your thread.
our family will pray for you to over come this.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
KontrollerX
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Damn sorry to hear that man.
Glad to hear that yours has a good chance of recovery though.
Keep up the fight brother.
We are all in your corner if only symbolically.
And yeah definitely keep us updated on your progress.
Glad to hear that yours has a good chance of recovery though.
Keep up the fight brother.
We are all in your corner if only symbolically.
And yeah definitely keep us updated on your progress.
PerfectCircle
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Hoping your whole experience is nothing more then a inconvenience. Best of luck at a fast and permanent recovery.
Remulak
Senior Don Juan
You will defeat this, I will keep you in my prayers. Please keep us updated and stay strong.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This really makes you want to live your life to the fullest. One day you can wake up and find out you have cancer, etc.
You sound like you're being very proactive about it which is great! Fight hard and you'll pull through man.
You sound like you're being very proactive about it which is great! Fight hard and you'll pull through man.
Mr.Positive
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I believe sometimes in life God calls upon us to fight for something. He sees strength, and tests it.
A lot of people go through life without much to fight for, but for those that get called upon...like you Wolf, you will discover a strength inside of you that nothing can take away.
When you beat this, you'll wake up each morning truly understanding, that today, is the first day of the rest of your life.
A lot of people go through life without much to fight for, but for those that get called upon...like you Wolf, you will discover a strength inside of you that nothing can take away.
When you beat this, you'll wake up each morning truly understanding, that today, is the first day of the rest of your life.
Thanks so much everyone for your support, I even got an email from Warboss Alex which made my day.
Thanks for letting me vent a little, I can't tell anyone in real life except mum, they will just treat you like you're dying and look at you strangely when you laugh.
I will keep everyone up to date.
Thanks for letting me vent a little, I can't tell anyone in real life except mum, they will just treat you like you're dying and look at you strangely when you laugh.
I will keep everyone up to date.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.