My Name is Nobody
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Changed your life with women?HOMBRE said:Actually, I've had other forums change my life. I can't speak for this one since I'm new.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Changed your life with women?HOMBRE said:Actually, I've had other forums change my life. I can't speak for this one since I'm new.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.My Name is Nobody said:Changed your life with women?
HOMBRE said:Absolutely with women..no doubt about that. With men too. But yeah, with women especially. I used to not like women much...kind of like most of you I'd guess.
"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.My Name is Nobody said:I've always loved women, I just didn't know how to utilize my love.
Yeah I have learned that the way to utilize your love is NOT being an AFC.HOMBRE said:"Utilize" your love. Interesting way of putting it. So did you figure out how to "utilize" it? Your love I mean.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.If we're going to interject ourselves into other people's lives why can't we step up and help iqqi with her problem?
Amen. I'm not talking about an intervention. If iqqi doesn't ask for help then none will be given.Desdinova said:We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.
You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?
It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.Desdinova said:We can certainly try, but at the end of it all, iqqi has to WANT to fix her problem... and that's even if she believes she has a problem.
You know how many times I was tempted to help out drunk AWs? Too many to count. I really felt bad for them, but what could I do? Give them a ride home so they could sleep it off? Let them puke in my truck?
It's really fukkin sad to see, but the person with the problem needs to want help. That's why our "mission" over at Loveshack was successful, it's full of people who want help.
This is the clarity I've come to expect from wise Brothers such as Zen.ZenGodMod said:We all shouldn't have reacted to, responded against or attached ourself to iqqi's statements, it just fueled her and entertained drama more then it helped anyone.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I think Hombre might be a woman.HOMBRE said:Your mission was a complete and dismal failure.
What's an AW? And what's an AFC again? I can't keep up with all these retarded abbreviations, sorry.
Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...KontrollerX said:If keto wishes to supplant me as KX he must face me in direct combat to the death!
*Watches Karma sound the battlehorn for the mideivel style duel*
LOL.
No sh!t. Try not to make it so obvious next time, HOMBRE.Charmed said:Hombre is a woman
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!Mr.Positive said:Men, we should be celebrating our victory, not fighting amongst ourselves. We live to fight another day...
We need a sosuave victory march...and yes, with bagpipes.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3Kk-sOojjE&feature=related
Advanced ss technology.KontrollerX said:Sosuave energy is the answer to the world energy crisis!
Damnit...I love being a man too!! I'm fired up right now, and I've got bagpipes blaring as I type this...you know, we ought to form the first sosuave pipes and drums band.KarmaSutra said:Abso-fvcking-lutely! With bagpipes and kilts with nothing underneath but sweaty sac and farts!
Hot damn I love being a man!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.